Posts Tagged ‘“Slow Lane”’

Riding the Blue Ridge Parkway and “Clearing the Back Forty”

Monday, June 7th, 2010

One of the fun things we like to do is to ride the Blue Ridge Parkway.  This year marks the 75th anniversary of the parkway.  We took a ride from the Northwest Trading Post going North past the Virginia state line to Fancy Gap.  We took our time and enjoyed most of the overlooks and a nice ride.  We stopped at Cumberland Knob and took the short trail up to the Knob.  We stopped at the Blue Ridge Music Center, walked around the grounds including the amphitheater and a short distance down one of the trails that we want to take on a future trip.  Then we sat in rocking chairs on the open breezeway and listened to the local musicians play the banjo and Guitar.  One visitor from New Jersey knew some songs that the musicians did not, so he proceeded to sing three different songs and the musicians were able to pick up and accompany him. 

We exited the parkway at Fancy Gap, ate our picnic lunch and drove a series of mostly back roads over to Independence, Virginia.  From there we followed back roads roughly following the New River enjoying some really marvelous views of pastures, freshly cut hay, and farmsteads with mountains and the New River in the background most of the way.  We could see Mt Rogers in Virginia and other mountains to the South in North Carolina.  This is one of the most scenic drives we have taken.  For most of it, we had not traveled these roads before.

One of our projects is “clearing the back forty”.  One of the comments we often made growing up on the farm was that we had been busy “plowing the back forty” (the figurative huge field that you just settle into and go back and forth all day).  Our back yard is nowhere near forty acres, but it has felt like it as we have cut our way through the saplings (up to 4 or 5 inches and smaller) that have grown much taller.  Our view is improving and expanding and that is one reason we took on this project.  Another reason is that we envision gardening in the back yard, including some blueberry, blackberry, and/or rasberry bushes on the lower part of the lot where the trees were.  At some point the project will shift from cutting trees and piling limbs to chipping the limbs and cleaning up the area.  We have a few more trees to cut, but we’ve made good progress, found lots of muscles that we don’t use often and rediscovered the shear joy of resting.

Spring Is Late, But Quick

Thursday, April 8th, 2010

Spring had trouble breaking through the cold weather of this winter, but the warm weather arrived suddenly. The mountains had temperatures last week and this week in the 80′s. Raleigh has had 90′s. Jonquils were slow to bloom, and came in March instead of February or some years in late January. Dogwoods bloomed and leafed out in a week.

I planted Jonquil bulbs in 3 locations in the yard in the mountains. The first ones barely peeped through the ground about mid-march and bloomed by the end of March. It took about 4 days to have 6 jonquils blooming.

There has has been lots of pollen this year, more than in decades. One explanation is the rapid warm-up this spring. Pine pollen turns everything yellow/green and oak blossoms this year are almost simultaneous. They pile up everywhere.

Spring is a wondrous time of year and it’s fun to watch flowers bloom and trees leaf out. Sometimes, I am pleased to see a flower or plant that I had forgotten was there. The weather has been great for getting outside.

Project update

Friday, March 26th, 2010

Last week, I visited my brother Calvin in Pensacola. We had a good visit. We had some quality time together, I met some of his friends, and we talked about some of the issues he faces due to physical health. Basically, he has very limited mobility due to knee problems and being overweight. He uses a walker, has railings along his hallway, has a lift chair, has installed a walkin shower, and has raised toilets. While I was there we attended a seminar on bariatric surgery and got some good information. While this surgery offers hope and a definitive path to weight loss, it does not promise to be easy, quick, or cheap. I am optimistic that he will find a way forward to improving his health and becoming more mobile. It was a good visit.

Another fun thing L and I did soon after my last blog entry was to attend, with our neighbors, a concert at Bald Mountain Baptist Church. There were more than a hundred Ministers of Music, instumentalists, and directors who came together from Baptist churches all over North Carolina. This was a talented group of musicians. There were lots of individuals who played an insturment in one selection, then moved to the choir, and several took turns as director. It was quite impressive to watch and the music was wonderful.

Flexibility Versus Commitment, An Example

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

Being retired enables a lot of flexibility, particularly in setting schedules. Having a cabin in the mountains, we have been able to schedule more frequent trips to the mountains and longer stays. Recently, we went to the mountains planning to stay for about a week. We enjoyed the view with about 5 inches of the 15 inch snow that fell about 2 weeks before we got there. The temperature was cold and the snow did not melt much. We had the fire going and were enjoying our stay.

Then in late afternoon of the second day we were there, Sunrise called and said that Mom was not feeling well and her blood pressure had spiked up. They tested it again a bit later and called to say that her BP was back down and not a concern. Meanwhile, we considered our options and decided to return to Raleigh that night.

This decision was an example of flexibility in that we had the option to return to Raleigh even though we had earlier chosen the option of spending a week in the mountains.

This was an example of commitment as well. I am Mom’s Healthcare Power of Attorney, and I am committed to making her quality of life as good as I can. I chose to honor this commitment and returning to Raleigh has proven to be a good decision. In the last week Mom has had at least two bad days when she did not feel well and I was glad to deal with it in person rather than over the phone with her and Sunrise staff. Mom’s dementia makes it difficult to understand much over the phone on good days. These recent bad days would have made talking on the phone practically impossible. I know the Sunrise staff who work with Mom and could have worked with them on the phone, but it is just not the same as being on the scene.

Commitment won over flexibility in priority for this circumstance. However, it was not an “either/or” situation as much as it is a “both/and” situation. We have the flexibility to choose other priorities while we are in Raleigh and we will have the flexibility to return to the mountains in a few weeks.

Perhaps titling this entry “Flexibility And Commitment” would have been a more accurate description.

New Year Thoughts

Tuesday, January 5th, 2010

When I have a “to-do” list, the list is more likely to have been created by someone else.  For me, making a list is as difficult to accomplish as it is to do the items on such a list.  Also, I don’t have the habit of referring to my list and especially when I think that I remember everything that’s on the list. Neither of these results encourage me to make more lists.

On the other hand, experience is teaching me that when I need to pick up something at the grocery store or have multiple topics I want to mention on a phone call or Doctor’s visit, a list is worth the effort.  Now, if I can remember to trust my experience and temper my tendency to dismiss the “make a list” reminders from others, perhaps I will choose to be a more frequent list maker.

The fact that I’ve seldom made a formal list of New Year’s resolutions should not be surprising.  However, there are times when it is appropriate to pause and consider where one is in relation to current goals and ambitions.   An example for me is that I want to make more frequent entries here on my blog and add more information on Jonquilpatch.com.  When I can see that I have accomplished this goal, I know that I will have made changes in how I set priorities for my use of time and effort.  Of course, you can see that the word “more”  leaves some wiggle room.  Some would say that I haven’t really made a commitment to make the change.  I won’t argue this point.  I really do value flexibility and flexibility competes with commitment in how I manage my time.  For me, having these two competing values means that I have to decide over and over which value is most appropriate for the circumstance at hand. 

Some will argue that all I’ve said can be reduced to semantics.  It is good that we can say and do things differently to accomplish our goals, even if we happen to have common goals.  So, however you say it, I hope you have success in reaching your goals and that you have a pleasant journey through the process.

Fall is coming: Confusing Magnolias

Sunday, October 4th, 2009

IMG_4257IMG_4256

Magnolia trees bloom in the Spring and produce cones with red seeds on them in the Fall. Thus one might conclude that these two pictures were taken about 4 months apart. Actually, they were taken only minutes apart and exist in our Raleigh neighborhood growing less than 50 feet from each other.

So, what does one make of this apparent confusion? I’ve never noticed a magnolia tree blooming this late in the year. Contradictory evidence has some explanation: Different varieties? genetics? environmental factors (seems unlikely)? I would like to know, but I’m content that I noticed the difference and can enjoy the puzzle as well as the view.

Fall is Coming

Wednesday, September 16th, 2009

Dogwood Berries
Sometimes we pay little attention to the seasons except when we notice: “The leaves have turned beautiful colors.” “It’s very cold and maybe a chance of snow.” “Everything is turning green and flowers are blooming.” or “It’s just too hot, but the vegetables are plentiful and it’s vacation time.”

This week, I noticed something that I knew happens every year, but I didn’t remember happens this early. As you can see in the picture, the dogwood berries have turned bright red. The dogwood tree we planted several years ago has had lots of blossoms in the Spring and it now has lots of red berries. I think it’s a sign of Fall that I haven’t always noticed. It’s nice to see the beauty of nature and note the changes that remind us of simple joys.

Driving the Blue Ridge Parkway

Monday, September 14th, 2009

We left Secluded Lane Sunday morning and headed North on the Blue Ridge Parkway from the Northwest Trading Post about 10:00 AM.  It was a beautiful day weatherwise and it was pleasant to ride along and stop at some of the overlooks to get a better view of the spectacular scenery and distant views along the way.  We made it across the state line into Virginia and stopped at the Blue Ridge Music Center at milepost 213.  This is a fantastic center, museum, and concert center.  It is part of The Crooked Road, Virginia’s Heritage Music Trail.  This time, like other times we’ve stopped, there was live music.  On Sunday, there were two musicians, one of whom was a Park Ranger who said he was learning to play the dulcimer. 

We stopped in Fancy Gap for lunch and then drove further to US Highway 58 where we left the Parkway and headed toward Greensboro through Stuart, Virginia and down highways 8, 89, and 68, still enjoying the ride and the scenery, arriving about 4:00 PM.  We got in a visit with Sarah and Emma in Greensboro before heading back to Raleigh.

The Blue Ridge Parkway is truly a treasure of the National Park System.  It is the most visited national  park in the US.  Our cabin at Secluded Lane is only about 5 miles from the Parkway and we can see the Mt  Jefferson overlook from our deck.  Each of our cars has a Blue Ridge Parkway license plate and the extra we pay supports the Blue Ridge Parkway Foundation and helps pay for some of the upkeep. 

The Blue Ridge Parkway is consistent with the Slow Lane philosophy.  The speed limit is 45 and the objective is to take your time and enjoy the trip.

Lots of Peanuts Lost in Fire

Friday, September 4th, 2009

IMG_4216
In a small town like Severn, NC, it’s pretty special to have one of the largest peanut storage facilities in the country. When it caught on fire August 11th, it began a long vigil for firefighters and officials to monitor the fire that is still expected to burn another 2 weeks or so. This picture was taken on September 1st. There are multiple “Rain for Rent” tractor trailers sitting ready with extra water when needed.

The elevator tower in the left of the picture is the height of the structure with the dome rising above that height. Without having verified any information, my understanding is that there were between 500 and 600 tractor trailer loads of peanuts in the facility. Fortunately, I’ve heard of no injuries and hazard and safety investigations did not require an evacuation of people in the vicinity.

Chris at Builtmore

Thursday, July 23rd, 2009

  Chris and I have been friends for more than 20 years. He is the Woodcrafter on staff at the Builtmore House in Asheville. His primary responsibility is to talk about and demonstrate woodworker tools and projects to guests of the Builtmore House. One young girl about 8 came into the wood shop and her first question was “How do you make a tree?” Chris responded, “I don’t do that. God makes the tree and I use the wood to make other things.” The discussion continued as Chris showed some of the things he made and explained how to make them. The wood shop is at the barn area of the Builtmore Estate away from the big house. Chris is a good storyteller and seems to enjoy the interaction with the guests as well as making things from wood. As a bonus he is able to sell some of the things he makes at the gift shop nearby.

 Chris at Builtmore 071409

Lucinda and I enjoyed visiting with Chris and Roz on Sunday and watching Chris work on Tuesday. On Monday we visited the Western NC Arboretum and the Blue Ridge Parkway Headquarters and Destination Center.  On Wednesday morning, we visited the Folk Art Center before driving to our cabin in Ashe County.